Before you start pointing out it relies on exactly how I dress, i dress contempt conservative and only sexy/classy once I to be on a night the end etc.

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I've been told by one ex that i was "annoyingly hard to get" and also I have no idea why ns only lure scum bags.

I am really entrepreneurial and also run a business. I likewise have a great city job and can even squeeze in modelling(I largely do make up modelling).

I carry out not fulfill a lot of men as ns am constantly at occupational or working. I will certainly hit a bar when a month yet even then ns usually entice the wrong type of men.

I'm a great dancer but unfortunately civilization see this together "easy" also if ns am dancing well and in a sensible method with a lady friend!

On one dating application I signed up with, men kept inviting me to your house and I had actually to decrease them as I assumed that is not my style.

How perform I fix this?


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Well, if you room attractive lady, males will desire to sleep v you. It's sort of the law of the jungle.

The trick would be to avoid many of the men, and just listen to the men that desire to get to understand you. So, instead of simply sitting and also getting messages from guys, possibly you must take the initiative and find males that friend think are not scumbags and also message them. We nice males tend come be no as active as the guys that simply want come sleep with you.

If you carry out want to satisfy someone that isn't poor to say something like, "just an fyi, ns don't usually have sex till monogamy, i hope that's no a trouble for you." that will probably scare away most of the men that simply want sex. Some could still try, but just uphold this principle and also they will certainly probably give up if girlfriend don't cavern on the an initial date.


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Hey! many thanks for the good advice. The just downside is ns am supplied to men chasing me and also I feeling silly questioning a male out or informing him I choose him(kind of tried the once, that failed and he ended up liking me back 5 year later).

I guess: v I'll simply wait for someone who thinks I'm cool and is no shy to speak to me :)


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You're only projecting your looks and style. I've gained nothing about your personality from this post. Looks do a guy want to have actually sex through you, personality makes them desire to stick around you(if they are a good fit because that you).

I'm no saying you have a negative or not attractive personality mind you, simply that you most likely aren't making the as apparent as you might be.


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Op · 4y

I get told that I'm bubbly, social and also I get called intimidating a lot! I'm also full of concepts and very entrepreneurial and also I winner the "funniest person" award at work!


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What are you doing to make yourself more valuable as a lengthy term partner? every I've really gathered indigenous what you've said about yourself for the most part is you're attractive. Well, if that's all you're bringing come the table then...ya, sex is the just thing that comes to mind. There's tons of pretty women out there...dime a dozen. Finding one the will put in the occupational for a relationship, is loyal, go what she have the right to for her partner, etc. That shits difficult to find. If you want something serious with a male you're gonna have to display you bring more to the table than your looks.


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How deserve to I let men know about myself as soon as they execute not desire to hear? ns tried to strike increase a bitcoin conversation v one guy and he started talking around coming come his because that drinks! These guys are ~ sex only(not all however the people I have actually come across lately)


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It appears you space attractive and seductive, however classy too. You seem to obtain plenty that men's attention, but only for sex. It's for sure to say, there room three species of men:

Attractive males who space players and also just want the sex

Attractive males who are not players who want to obtain to know you for a potential relationship

Unnattractive males who space not players that to obtain to know you for a potential relationship

The trouble is, most guys in the third catagory would probably love to get to understand you and also date you and also have sex with you, but you room not interested in them.

Another problem is the the attractive football player seem to far outnumber the attractive men searching for something since...well..players simply approach means more and whomever they think is attractive sufficient for sex. So just by default, you will certainly run into them more, 보다 the attractive males who want a relationship. More than likely becuase lock spend much less time hitting on woman/going on days for sex and an ext time functioning on themselves/etc.

Since you space attractive, don't resolve for the 3rd catagory. Instead find a method to distinguish between the attractive players and attractive non-players. Gaining sexual an extremely early and aggressively is a sign of a player. Unnatural smooth speak is a sign of a player.

You may need to go because that an attractive man that does no seem as "smooth" or "seasoned" in the beginning. Together you acquire to understand him (And if he has his shit together), he will certainly become much more attractive and complicated to you. As you know the player more, the more sleazy and unnatractive he seems to you.

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Try that. Offer the attractive man that is a little nervous a chance. Possibilities are, the reason why the is nervous is since he probably, actually, likes girlfriend (for much more than sex).